Now, there are some fortunate women who look great in anything they put on. They have a body type that lends itself to any outfit. Such are the women we sigh over and wish we resembled. But if God created us and created our particular body-type, then I know that He wants us to do our best to dress that body-type in the clothes that suit it. I myself am what I've termed a "Robust Hourglass." I have a waist and hips and they are defined enough, but certainly not what you'd call willow-y. :)
So let's pretend to dress up a young woman with ample curves who could even possibly stand to lose some weight. (I am one of them, so this is a lesson from my personal experience. :)
Take Example A:
Haha! Look--They're standing the same way too--bonus points! {Is that the same model? Nah..don't think so.}This model, like Model A is wearing horizontal stripes. But Model B did something neat and broke up the stripes with another garment, thus directing the eyes away from the side-to-side view. I love the combination of patterns and the colors. Model B chose a really good pair of jeans for her build too. Bell-bottom, boot-cut, and flare jeans are all the best choices for a robust hour-glass figure or a pear-shape because they balance the effect of the hips by flaring out at the bottoms themselves, resulting a slimmer, more proportionate look.
Now that we've covered jeans/slacks, let's move on to skirts and dresses! Quite frankly this...
...is just not real flattering.
It's a sheath dress and sheath dresses are generally formatted for tall, slim girls. Not the hippies. (Pun intended. ;)
I don't like short dresses anyway, but especially not on a heftier frame. I mean, honestly. It just kinda points out all the places you aren't looking your best. (And goodness--I know I keep using the same model, but she's just got every example I'm looking for, so sorry. :P) Instead, if you've got curves you ought to stick to what actually looks good on your type:
A pretty, classy skirt and blouse with a belt. Definitely flattering.
I mean, she looks beautiful in this dress!
Maxi dresses, peasant gowns, princess dresses, Greek-inspired gowns, like the one above, longer shirt-dresses...these are made for women with our body types! Stop trying to squeeze into the teeny-tiny things that only make you feel like a sausage in a casing, and start buying things that suit your figure! I promise you that wearing something that actually fits in the right places will automatically make you feel more confident and pretty.
There are so many beautiful pieces of clothing that you can wear and that will actually be flattering...not fattening. Here are just some of my favorites I've pinned onto my Fabulous Wearables Pinterest Board. :) Pairing items of clothing like a blouse with a sweater or belt is another trick to break up the figure and draw attention away from your "problem" areas like a not-so-thin waist or plumpish arms. ;)
I absolutely love the style of this gown, though I'd personally choose a brighter color!
So, dear girls, let's all try to learn our body type and think before we wear something that just wasn't made the way we were. Each and every style of body is a beautiful creation of God and it's a responsibility of ours to present ourselves beautifully each day. Whether you were blessed to be able to wear every single style or whether you're better off choosing carefully, pick things that fit you and your type--not that the world says you ought to wear.
























Great point, Rachel. Isn't it funny how one outfit can be super cute on one person, and the most unflattering creation of man on another? :P Oh, fashion joys and woes! But I agree with you completely, knowing what looks good on me personally is important, without the guilt or discontentment that comes from trying to "fit in" (literally and figuratively) and failing :S Goodness knows I've tried it :P
ReplyDeleteAGREED! I'm on the "heftier" side myself and never have been one of those slim and trim tall girls...my big-boned body type runs in the women of both sides of my family. :) Yes, Yes, yes!! Completely agree with the stripes, skinny jeans, and too-short type skirts with you.
ReplyDeleteI learned at a conference to watch where your eyes fall on a garment or outfit and it's been an amazing benefit, both for modesty reasons as well as choosing clothing for my body type. :) You can definitely use that tool in the examples above.
Excellent post Rachel dear! :D *applause*
~Rachel~
Wonderful post! Definitely agree. I'm not so much hefty, but I'm short. So those column dresses and skirts just don't work (unless I'm wearing some really high heels to compensate the difference). I think it's important in general to take some time and wear things that are lovely and flattering. It boosts your confidence, enthusiasm, and general feeling about yourself. I absolutely HATE walking around the house in an old tee shirt and jean skirt, and not having done anything with my hair. Sometimes I tell myself I don't have the "time" to dress it up a little, but whatever extra time it takes is always worth it on the days that I try.
ReplyDeleteSo, I absolutely agree! Great post. :)
Miss Elizabeth
This post was simply splendid, Rachel! I'm one of the more robust girls myself and sometimes it seems that every outfit out there was created with a willowy Audrey-Hepburn type in mind. And though that's great for all the girls with that body shape, there are a lot of us who AREN'T like that!
ReplyDeleteDrawing attention to the face is another trick to try when you're attempting to draw attention away from a problem area. :D Modest v-necks, pendant necklaces, scarves, whatever, can bring a person's eyes to your face and not your hips. :P Plus, scarves are just dee-lightful. And awesome for fall. Yay fall!
Such great ideas, girls! I love the idea of drawing attention to your face. :) Necklaces are one of my favorite jewelry pieces! <3
ReplyDeleteSome great tips! Very interesting and useful. It's definitely all about embracing what you've got. I'm pretty short and have sort of a petite shape, but I'm also quite curvy, although smaller on top than I am on the bottom. I'm a pain to dress, if I do say so myself :')
ReplyDeleteI agree it's important to get know what looks good on you. I've been loving long, flowy maxi-skirts recently - they've been my go-to thing to wear this month. Flattering, stylish and just good all round really! Also, I usually don't like necklaces but I've been trying some out recently. They're surprisingly definitely good for diverting attention towards your face, I've found.
~Abby