Tuesday, October 2, 2012

All the possibilities!

Hello lovelies! 

Here's me being busy again with a lot of writing: blogging, novels, devotions, and researching for the classes I'll be teaching at Camp. I'm really excited this time: I'm assisting in the hair-cutting/styling class and spear-heading the hair-do half. :) Unfortunately there isn't internet access up at the camp (or the girls aren't supposed to use electronics during the week for sanity's sake) so I can't just direct them to my Pinterest board. Ha ha.


That means I get to put together a notebook of all my favorite hairstyles. I'm also typing up a sheet of hairstyling-links for the girls to take home, and I thought I'd share the links with you for your own hair-happiness. Oui? Okay.


ebeautyblog.com -video tutorials for casual/formal styles

Rapunzel's Resource- picture/ video tutorials {especially for long hair}


Two's Company: a double-take- several historical copy-cat styles I linked to a few posts ago...

A Beautiful Mess- lots of hair tutorials here!







I had to laugh over my hair today. First off, it's like 85 degrees here and humid as a greenhouse--can't tell why when it's been so beautiful lately. ANY-how, this no-way sets my hair up for a good time. Then I get in the shower and find that the little container I'd assumed as shampoo turns out to be conditioner.

I knew we were running low, but not that low.

My only choice is bar-soap or the guys' Axe Body-wash....

I go for the body-wash.

Guess what?

Yep. Best hair day I've had in a month.

Go figure that one....smooth, silky-soft, and way less frizz than I'd even hoped for on a day like this.

Monday, October 1, 2012

{From My Bookshelf}: With Every Letter- Sarah Sundin


With Every Letter
 (Book One in Wings of the Nightingale Series)
By Sarah Sundin

If you've stuck around this blog for any length of time you'll have come up with the quite accurate idea that I'm a romantic. I don't need anyone to teach me how to dream, how to propose (or help him propose) or how to make a match. I count it one among many "severe-ish mercies" in my lifetime that I have gone through my girlhood years knowing next-to-no eligible young men. Honestly, I didn't need the distraction. Which is why, as a general rule, I stay away from romance novels. It isn't that I think they are bad, or harmful. (though some might fit the bill) It's just that my poor little fluffy mind doesn't need help imagining or longing for that All -Elusive Someday. On occasion, even an over-abundance of BBC films can throw me into a slight state of discontentment that I'd do better to avoid.
But when I won Sarah Sundin's latest book, With Every Letter, in a giveaway, I knew I had to take a whack at it. First of all, it was free. Second, it had a beautiful cover. Third, it was set in WWII. Fourth, I could tell she'd done her research. Fifth, it had to do with a romance conducted through letter-writing. I was hooked. When the book came in the mail I ambled over to the picnic table we've somehow neglected to remove from the roadside the past several winters, and started to read. Once started, there was no going back. This gal is good.
"Before I start this letter, I must be clear that I'm searching for friendship, not romance. I don't want to mislead you or toy with your affections. I do apologize if you hoped for a romantic letter from a perky beauty..."
Thus runs Lt. Mellie Blake's first letter to her anonymous correspondent. Gotta love her frankness! This is what tipped me off to the fact that this book would be different than a lot of romance novels. It was going to actually be pure.
With Every Letter follows the young, insecure, but compassionate and loving Lt. Philomela (Mellie) Blake--a young flight nurse in WWII. But because I'm never that great at synopsisises...synopsi? Whatever. Since I'm not that great at those, I'll give you the blurb on the back of the book. It's enough to grab anyone's interest!
        Lt. Mellie Blake is looking forward to beginning her training as a flight nurse. She is not looking forward to writing a letter to a man she's never met--even if it is anonymous and part of a moral-building program. Lt. Tom MacGilliver, an officer stationed in North Africa, welcomes the idea of an anonymous correspondence--he's been trying to escape his infamous name for years.
        As their letters crisscross the Atlantic, Tom and Mellie develop a unique friendship despite not knowing the other's true identity. When both are transferred to Algeria, the two are poised to meet face-to-face for the first time. Will they overcome their fears and reveal who they are, or will their future be held hostage by their pasts
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Isn't that interesting? I thought so. This book did not disappoint me in any way, shape, or form. In fact, I ended up falling way harder for the characters than I thought I would. Here, therefore, is a list of my favorite things and my thoughts about With Every Letter...

1. Lt. Mellie Blake: Perhaps I identified with Mellie because of her heart for Christ and loving spirit, but I will also admit that Mellie's insecurities and doubts sometimes about whether a man could think her attractive enough to see her and only her sound an awful lot like some of my doubts and fears when I take my eyes off Christ. The way the Lord {and Sarah Sundin. haha!} bring Mellie through this is beautiful and humbling. I also appreciated the fact that she is definitely not looking for romance. Actually, she resists officially meeting Tom to the point of exasperation for me--sitting back here knowing Tom loved her and how...AHHH!

2. The setting: WWII is a great enough setting...but Sarah Sundin set the book in North Africa, Algeria, and the lower Mediterranean which was just really neat. I mean, who has read a book set in those places? Not me. Plus, Lt. Blake is one of only 500 flight nurse to serve the US during WWII! Really neat.

3. Sarah's research: As an author, I know it's tough to do your research thoroughly--and she has done it. By George, she's done it! You feel like you're in Algeria during the 1940's. Seriously!

4. How Mrs. Sundin portrays Christianity: there comes a point in the life of your book when you've got to determine how your relationship with Christ and your world-view will come out in the story. Some books/authors turn preachy and unrealistic with that OSS (Obligatory Salvation Scene) we all cringe over. Others omit all mentions of religion and Christianity. But both Mellie and Tom and Christians and their personal relationships with Christ are a huge part of the story, which I really liked.

5. The romance: You were waiting for that, weren't you? ;) Unlike many stories, I felt like Mellie and Tom's romance was realistic, beautiful, and pure. They begin with a mutual desire for only friendship and therefore their relationship is built upon encouraging one another in the Lord, learning the heart of the other...discussing important things...all of that. Then you get the romantic tension building. Tom's struggle (which I can't discuss at length here, not wanting to spoil the plot for you) with physical attraction toward an "acquaintance" is portrayed so honorably I wanted to cheer. Without being inappropriate {which a lesser author would default to}, Sarah let us know that Tom felt attraction toward this one woman (not lust, mind you.), and described and played out his struggle for honor in so great a way that you like this guy a lot. A whole lot. Ahem. So much that you kinda-sorta-wish-he-was-real-and-not-confined-to-the-page.

And the last scene? Great Snakes. I didn't see such an "AWWWW!" moment coming and it totally made my day when I read it. That, darling, is how I want to be loved. That is the kind of man I want to marry. That is what love is supposed to look like. *sniff*

In conclusion: Not having read any other "Christian historical romances" and not knowing how much actual history they put in amongst the kissing, I am sticking my neck out and saying Sarah Sundin has it down pat for the perfect formula of romance and actual historical plot. I found myself enjoying this book an actually thinking that my brother might enjoy it--Tom's side of the story is strongly supported and written so the book is an even split between guy and girl. Because of the fact that this is a romance and the author does deal with their increasing physical attraction toward one another (though in a very mild, gentle, innocent way) and because of high danger/action/emotional tension in the rest of the plot, I would recommend With Every Letter for ages 18+, though mature, younger readers would enjoy it as well. I say 18+ merely because it's my personal opinion that younger girls don't need to be focusing on romance just yet. ;)

But trust me. You'll love it. I know you will.This is how historical romance ought to be written!

Sunday, September 30, 2012

{My Style}: Little Bitta Vintage Charm

It has come....the very last day of the Autumn Allure modest fashion event! It's a little sad to see it go--I've enjoyed putting together all these posts, talking about fashion with you girls, and looking closer at trends, styles, and techniques. It's been great and I hope you've enjoyed reading the posts as much as I've enjoyed writing them. Today might be the last day of my fashion event, but there is another one that I've been participating going on over at Through the Lilac Bushes that I hope you'll check out along with me!
One of my readers, Sarah V. mentioned a site that gives you a quiz to pin-down your own personal style! The Chic Fashionista's quiz was so quick and accurate! Though I know my style pretty well I thought I'd take the test and was pleased to see that the result was in keeping with what I've found: My style is Romantic  and the more I read about it, the more I agreed. Many of the Romantic fashionistas look to vintage-styles to suppliment their personal look...which brings me to today's outfit.

Last night I quickly set my hair in pin-curls--the easiest, most authentic way to get vintage curls...

 

Essentially all you do is roll your dampish hair around your fingers, bobby-pin it in place, and sleep with a kerchief around your head so the curls don't get frizzed and fuzzed at night. 



This is such a lovely method--my personal favorite...no harsh curling irons...no fuss....and it works like a charm for my hair. Shorter hair works best with pin-curls, but though mine has grown out,  you still feel the vintage-effect.



I did my makeup in shimmery, neutral shades with distinct eyeliner and wore red lipstick to accentuate the 50's feel of the soft pink cardigan. I had wanted to wear my brown Oxford-pumps, but since I ended up with a black skirt, that wasn't going work. So I pulled out my thinking-cap and realized that I could go with my cream-colored sling-back heels to coordinate with the cream-colored lace on the cardigan. Win!








After running my fingers through my curls to loosen them a bit, I ended up coiling one back and pinning it to add even a little more fifties' flair to the outfit. :)



I had a lot of fun with this outfit. :)

What were your Sunday outfits?
 Also, go ahead and take the personal-style test I linked to and tell me what your style is. :) 
Are any of you Romantic like I am?

Saturday, September 29, 2012

Style Spot-light: The granola Boho-chic

I had a request on my Facebook page to do a post on one particular style that is rather "on" right now. That style, my friends, is Boho-chic. As far as I can tell, the Boho (Bohemian) style took off in the sixties, waned till the late 1990's and then ebbed and flowed into its current popularity today. From the little research I've done, it seems that the Boho-look is inspired by gypsies, the Renaissance, hippy-esque clothing, and lots of natural elements. A while back I did a Bon-Voyage Fashion Event post that slightly touched on the style, but I'll give you a better look today.
Boho-chic is definitely a style for "crunchies". {The granola-crowd...you know.} It's casual, slightly untidy, cute, and earthy. *I* can't pull it off convincingly {my style is Romantic/Vintage} but I know many girls who look lovely in this fun genre of dress.

One fun part about the Boho-look is the jewelry! Metals, fibers, wood--all are great examples!





You see a lot of white, cream, beige, and brown in this style which people like to vary with pops of rich color like crimson, plum, orange, and navy.



Very free, flowing, and easy-going. Loose layers of clothing, stacked jewelry, untamed hair...these are the accents.

Belts, too, work extremely well in this style. The wider the better...




Boho-chic is perfect for those who love a simple, gypsy-ish life...carefree, beach-bonfire, lets-go-vegan/herbal girls who like a bit of originality in their fashion-life. ;)

Is Boho your style? Leave a comment below and let me know what you think!

Friday, September 28, 2012

Autumn Allure: Hair-dos {and don'ts}

Well, This lovely little party ends in two days! Only two days... :'( It's been great, y'all! I am so thankful for all you girls, and especially the ones who have participated in the my-style days! :)

One of my favorite parts about personal style is fixing your hair different ways. I am the girl who--at twelve years old--had friends who swore I was born with a pony-tail. That launched me into a search for new, attractive ways to fix my hair which then settled into a bun or a "middle" eternally....till I was about 15. Then I got my hair cut and realized that I could do things with it. Real things. Real pretty things.

Since then, styling my hair has been loads of fun. I am still not too good with my hair being...down. It just doesn't behave. But coming up with pretty updos, half-ups, and historical style reproductions are my forte.
Below are links to three historical hair tutorials I've done on Two's Company:

The Ada Clare Pull-back from Bleak House...
(includes instructions for bandanna-curls!)








These are the only four I've personally done tutorials for, simply because I haven't had time to search out all the others. The major hair-inspiration for me recently has been Pinterest.com. I have so many favorite styles to try pinned on my Learning the Art of Beautifying board, so go check it out!

One of the biggest things in arranging your hair nicely (or other people's) is to take into account the shape of the person's face. I have a high forehead so pulling my hair back tight like this:


just doesn't work for me. 
Neither does wearing a headband for some reason unknown to man. I can't say why, but ribbons, headbands, etc. just won't stay on my head without being pinned there severely. Not only do I have a high forehead, but my face is relatively round--I don't have especially pronounced cheekbones or jawline. So if I went with a sleek, slick look I'd end up resembling a shiny little egg or something equally strange. I've learned that for my face shape, my hairline, (and plain and simply my hair) the best styles are soft, gentle, and floufy.
I could pull this off very easily.

this too...

Or this!

So just play around, gather your own inspiration, and see what works best for you!

Thursday, September 27, 2012

Kate Middleton: Fashion Icon


Kate Middleton: Fashion Icon
{A guest post by Mamie Carlstrom} 

On November thirteenth, 2010, I left the United States with my Mother and brother to visit Spain. It was a very nice country, but I was very grateful to be with a friend who can speak Spanish.
A couple of days later, on November seventeenth, I boarded a plane headed to England.
I learned in the airport, and also on magazines everywhere, that the engagement of Prince William to Kate Middleton had been announced just hours before.

I walked into a country sparkling with the news of their new Princess-to-be.

It was interesting to hear the buzz of what everyone was saying. It was honestly the very first time I had ever heard of her. I wish I had paid better attention to what to locals were saying about this young lady about to become part of their Royal Family.


William’s choice in a wife was wonderful. Kate shows promise of being a splendid Queen one day.  Though I have of course never met her, she seems very sweet, kind, and willing to do whatever is needed for her country. She is a splendid helpmeet for her husband, always by his side.

  
And of course, beauty and loveliness incarnate.

The wardrobe of royalty, especially in Europe and North America, has always drawn the attention of women.  After the tragic death of beautiful Princess Diana, there has not been a young lady in “The Firm” for us to look to for fashion sense. Queen Elizabeth of course always had impeccable queenly clothes, but she is of a different era then the wife of her son or grandson would be.


Enter Kate Middleton.

One of the things that draw us to Kate even more is the fact that she is a commoner by birth. We place ourselves (be “we” I mean us females…I doubt any males are reading this) in her shoes. She was not born with royal blood coursing through her veins like almost all of the other Princesses before her. She possesses elegance that she developed herself.

Which means any one of us can be as poised as she. Cue the excitement!

(I kid you not; Kate is improving my posture a great deal.)


Kate focuses on natural beauty. Not excessive make-up or gaudy outfits. The fact that she was blessed with an extra dose of God-given physically beauty is a big help to her of course. When she was younger, she used this in a few ways that I do not believe were right, but now that she has matured, she seems to have seen this gift as something to be treasured and not completely exposed. Other than the occasional low cut neckline, I am very pleased with the way she uses her beauty now that she is the Duchess of Cambridge.

 
(Don’t get me started on how angry I am at the Paparazzi. In France.)

  
She does not ruin her prettiness with a bunch of decorations. It is real.  Even the homeliest face can be made beautiful with the right taste in adornment.




She combines modern and timeless fashion. 

This is one of my favorite dresses that she wore on their recent Royal Tour.
It was demure and yet radiant. She looked so attractive in the simple dress and color. I could very much see myself wearing a similar style.
She not only looks lovely in skirts, she pulls off pants quite well too.








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My sister has made the point to me on more than one occasion. “But her clothing is all designer! They are all super expensive!” And maybe so. She is royalty now after all. But I for one, watch her style, not to make myself desire exactly what she has been blessed with (I honestly don’t even pay much attention to the names of the designers,) but instead to get ideas about what looks classy and stylish, and find ways to emulate the quality of elegancy she brings to the world.

This brings me to the crux of what I’m trying to say in this article:
I love Kate because she is fully alive in her femininity.
She has accepted her role as a woman. She is not trying to push ahead of her husband or the male gender in general. This is such a breath of fresh air in this era of feminism, don’t you think?

I was reading a blog the other day, and someone made a remark about how they appreciate that Kate does not push for the spotlight. She knows that it already on her, so she does not try to draw more attention through flashiness. Her grace and poise speak for themselves.

What kind of style will you portray as a woman? Whether you wear a skirt or shorts, shop at a Thrift Store or Harrods, everyone can develop a sense of style that portrays elegance, classiness, and flair.

Let us learn from Kate that femininity is not lost. It is still fashionable to be ladylike.
Let us glory in our womanhood in just such the way that God created us to be.



 Mamie Rose Carlstrom is an eighteen year-old young woman seeking to devote every area of her life to Christ. She loves reading, writing, family, the color gray, music, the cupid shuffle, movies, travel, modest fashion, Adventures in Odyssey (don’t laugh), photography, the Green Bay Packers, meeting famous people, and healthy smoothies. Not necessarily in that order.  
She scribbles blog posts at www.ransomedbyone.wordpress.com
And her Pinterest page can be found here 

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

{My Style}: Harvest Flowers

I took these pictures yesterday and the sunlight was so bright and shining and....well....glaring, frankly, that I couldn't get the best pictures. Ah me. Oh well. You can get the general gist of the outfit from these, though you won't get a single face-shot because I was squinting so badly! :D I took the pictures out in the orchard and there was no escaping the sunlight.


I love this top! I usually wear it with my jeans (it looks best that way) but since I've already worn my jeans twice, I didn't want to bore myself and everyone else to death. Therefore, I paired it with my sage-green skirt with the embroidery all round the bottom. And gracious, girls--you ought to be proud of me. I actually brought out my iron for this momentous occasion! ;)




Oh drat. A tag sticking out. Blast and wretch! I am going to buy a new cami that needn't stick up the back--the only reason I need a cami with this is because the fabric is really thin and nearly see-through in some parts--but if you look closely you can see that this top has a pretty cut-out in the back.


And a closer picture of my hair....I did some French-twist-ish thing I found on Pinterest . Not the most stunning outfit or pictures I've ever done, but we can't be glamorous every day, can we? ;)